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Jeffrey Graves

Jeffrey "Pal" Graves

Monday, May 27, 1957 - Sunday, January 6, 2019
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Jeffrey Farrin “Pal” Graves of Potosi, Missouri departed this life surrounded by the love and care of his family at his home on Sunday, January 6, 2019. Jeff was born May 27, 1957 in Ironton, Missouri a son of Patricia “Pat” Graves and the late Murlin “Bud” Graves. Jeff was Sixty-one years, seven months and ten days of age.
Jeff was united in marriage to Darlene Gallaher on August 22, 1998 in Potosi, Missouri. They celebrated twenty years of family together.
Jeff is survived by his loving and devoted wife Darlene Graves of Potosi; one daughter, Lora Dyess and her husband Chuck of Belgrade; three sons, Edward Graves and his wife Marti of Potosi, Murlin Graves of Potosi and Aaron Dickey and his wife Britney of Belgrade; his loving mother, Pat Graves of Potosi; one sister, Susie Holt and her husband Troy of St. Louis; one brother, Eddie Graves and Fiancé Elise of Potosi; eight grandchildren and by many other dear and special relatives, friends and a very dear care giver, DeAngela and Sammy Messner. In addition to his father, Jeff was also preceded in death by one sister, Lisa Graves.
Jeff, a true meaning of a friend to all, he always had a smile, a joke or a shoulder to lean on. He had a grand love for his family, especially for his grandchildren. He always had time to take them fishing, to the creek to hunt crawdad’s or just be with them. Each of them made his eyes sparkle and each held a very dear and special place in his heart. He enjoyed hunting, golfing, watching the St. Louis Cardinals and relaxing with a western book. Jeff had a great love for his God and enjoyed Church and his Church family. The people of this community were a true love for him. Jeff had served on the Potosi City Council as an Alderman and then as the City of Potosi Building Commissioner. At times it would seem Jeff always had the best interest and welfare of others before himself.
Jeff was a true family man, community leader and friend who will be deeply missed by all those who knew him and had ever meet him on the street. Always a smile, Always a wave he would give.
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Service Details

  • Visitation

    Wednesday, January 9, 2019 | 1:00pm - 6:00pm
    Wednesday, January 9, 2019 1:00pm - 6:00pm
    Moore Funeral Home
    105 Clark Street
    Potosi, MO 63664
    Get Directions: View Map | Text | Email
  • Service

    Wednesday, January 9, 2019 | 6:00pm
    Wednesday, January 9, 2019 6:00pm
    Moore Funeral Home
    105 Clark Street
    Potosi, MO 63664
    Get Directions: View Map | Text | Email
    Rev. Mike Jarvis


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Patricia Brown

Posted at 10:43pm
Love & Prayers. You was always a ray of sunshine. Your smile and kind words to everyone will never be forgotten. Love always Sis

Margaret DeClue

Posted at 06:54pm
Jeff u will always b missed!!! Loved u cause u always had that great personality, smile, loving heart, helping a stranger n Most Beautiful Smile 😃 Wear ur CROWN PROUDLY U HAVE EARNED IT
LOVING Thoughts n Prayers
Margaret DeClue

George Lowe

Posted at 10:53am
Jeff and I have not talked for years but many times I have thought of trying to find him and renew our friendship. We were inseparable during high school and after. One of the very few real true friends I ever had.
My thoughts and prayers are with you Darlene. And the rest of the family.
George Lowe

Louie Seiberlich

Posted at 10:46am
My friend Jeff always had a smile, a kind word and could crack a one-liner with the best of them. I am proud to call Jeff, my "Pal"!

Mike and Wendy Franklin

Posted at 08:21am
Jeff was always such a ray of sunshine. We know he was so special and will be missed by so many. You have our thoughts and prayers. Love Mike and Wendy
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